Emotions 101: How Can Emotions Help Your Relationship Instead of Harming It? Fortunately, we know that emotions can actually help your relationship if we learn to recognize them, listen to them, value them, and express them. In Read More »
Relationship Tip: Emotional Connection 101 Do you ever wonder what emotional connection is? If so, you are not the only one! I am excited to call myself an Emotionally Focused Read More »
Learn Your Triggers and Improve Your Relationship How many times have you gone off the handle when your partner rolled his eyes at you, shrugged his shoulder, or said something in that tone of Read More »
Looking for Patterns Can Save Your Relationship – Part 3 “Freeze or Flee” “Freeze and Flee” is the last “Demon Dialogue” or pattern that Sue Johnson explains it in her book “Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Read More »
Looking for Patterns Can Save Your Relationship Part 2 “Protest Polka” Looking at Patterns can Save your Relationship: Protest Polka Pattern Last time I wrote about the first Demon Dialogue—Find the Bad Guy. In this pattern, Read More »
Looking for Patterns Can Save Your Relationship Part 1 “Find the Bad Guy” I am sometimes asked how can I sit with fighting couples all day long and listen to them complaining back and forth. Well, I don’t Read More »